Dating in a Relationshit Society........

Dating in a Relationshit Society: I would say that Im not really a "date kinda gal" a nice date here and there and Im good. I'm one of those "Don't Go Out Much but When I do...BABYYYYYYY.... I know to make it worth my while" I don't mind going out but I truly believe that the person for you... You kinda just know. (Don't ask me how I know... But you'll just know)




Talking to a Male friend of ...mines about dating as we know it ... I told him for me I personally think dating isn't neccessary ALL THE TIME, Especially if you're trying to build for the future. Dating can be expensive on both ends... Men pay lots of money to impress women with the "Setting or Ambiance" While women pay lots of money to impress men with the way they "Present Themselves" or their overall "STYLE"



Men- can spend up to $150 on one date including Food, Drinks, Traveling Exp. back and fourth and other little misc.expenses that add up...



Women- Can spend up to $150 on an Outfit alone (Dress, Shoes, Accessories) ... not to mention getting their hair done, (nails, feet, if applicable) for one date, just to look great.



The Problem: Men Expect Sex after one date and Women Expect Respect after one date..... Neither has Earned just off of a persons "Looks", "Financial Status" or the person they "Appear To Be"



Remedy: Stop focusing on dating , Stop Spending Money that you could be saving for the Future to Invest in Other things. Date the person who mutually likes you for you and not how they "think" you are. And Remember in this Economy is Better to Save Money then Spend all of It...... Even if you have scale back you'll be glad in the long run....... (We Gotta Get Our Priorities IN ORDER )


Written By:

Jamie P

Wow.... I almost go lost.....

Getting so caught up in the World's of Facebook and Twitter I almost got lost trying to keep up.    I kinda like the fact that I have this blog, it allows me to have control over my own small portion of the media world around me.    

I haven't written on here in a while, I think I'll start writting here more often..................


Sorry I've neglected this space.... I promise to keep writing and make you more colorful even if I'm the only that notices.....


Love,

Jamie :)

Like is an Understatement....

To LIKE You is an Understatement: ... (I LOVE YOU)..... Love Happens in a Blink of an Eye but the Memories Last Forever...




When I was down and feeling doubtful.. You were there not only were you there but you cared.. You told me everything will be okay and to keep going ... You Get No Likes for that (I Love You)



You Believed in My Dreams, Supported My Goals (No Matter how Big or Small)... You were right beside me even if you weren't there, you were only a phone call away You get No Likes for that (I Love You)



If I needed an ear or some sound advice Guess who was there...(YOU) You either gave me advice or told me to try something different, you never made me feel stupid or dumb ... You get no likes for that (I Love You)



Whenever a disagreement came about while working together on a project who's the first person to check and see if I was ok... and make sure things smoothed out... You... So you get no Likes for that (I Love You)



Whenever I call and seemed upset you didn't challenge me or get defensive you always asked... How can You Make it Better (Pause) *Tear* (Pause/Again) ...Loss for words but Who does that?? Thats definetly not a Like..... NO I LOVE YOU



You've treated my friends & family like your own with respect, care and honesty... for that alone I don't just like you... I Love U



When the World Around Me Seems Crazy and People Are All Upset Either Your Smile, Personality or just a thought of you Can Make Anyday Brighter... for that I Love You....



You Make Me Comfortable Even when Im Not Comfortable.... Nope Sorry ... I know I Love You...



You inspire me to do better, you make me want to give more, more to others , more to the world around me.... that's Growth... Growth doesn't stem from a liking someone its stems from Love....



These are type of moments don't come from liking someone they come b/c of Love and in my lifetime I hope that I can make someone feel this way ... Cause these types of feelings are irreplaceable.... So I'm sure they won't just like me..... They'll Love Me...



I Love You Not b/c of all these things Listed but because of Who You Are Alone is More than Enough For Me... You're a Friend, A Leader, a Lover, a Teacher, A Confidant, A God Send, A Rare Find... YOu are the Greatest Gift of All Time........

If you ever feel the need to wonder why I feel the way I feel.... Just Let Me Know....(