The Mission of the Battle of the Grown & Sexes “Project” is to promote healthier, happy, long lasting relationships between women and men. There are a lot of relationship games being played whether it’s emotionally, mentally or physically between women and men that need to cease. We believe that once we tackle the common issues on video and on blog pages via face book and other media outlets while using everyday people from different age groups, ethnicities, work backgrounds, educational levels etc., to discuss relationship topics/issues this will allow people who are single, dating, couples, married couples, etc., the abilities to look inside of themselves and their relationships as a whole and make better and healthier choices in life pertaining to their relationship happiness.
Our Grand-Opening or First Roll Out Topic of the Week was “Cheaters”. Rodney Harvey and I, Jamie Payne went around various Chicago areas asking random people the three questions of the week. Who cheats the most women or men? Who is affected by cheating more women or men? How does cheating affect people (women or men) in the long term relationships? *Bonus* question, Can people move one once they have been cheated on?
We received mixed reviews from the various, women, men, couples and married couples that we interviewed. The Women: Some women said men cheat more and that they are not considerate of the long term affects that it will have in a relationship. Some women said that men are more concerned with the physical aspects of cheating versus the emotional aspects of cheating. Some women say women cheat; they just are smarter at it than men.
The Men: Some men said that women cheat more they just don’t get caught as much as men. Some men admit that they cheat but women are smarter cheaters. Some men said that women are approached more often and have multiple opportunities to cheat more than men.
The Loop Answer: Women & Men cheat equally. Everybody stated that women and men do cheat and that is a common fact. Men cheat, Women cheat smarter.
The Conclusion: Cheating is wrong no matter who does it. It affects everyone involve and should not be looked at as a game, a way to get back at another person or for personal gain. Nobody wins in cheating, we all lose. It’s not positive and it doesn’t create positive effects on your self esteem or anyone else. We urge our supporters to think twice before you do this selfish act (Jacenda Smith). People can move on after being cheated on but it does take time no matter who does it women or men.
Submitted by: Jamie Payne, Founder of The Battle of the Grown & Sexes “Project”
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