Heart of the City ((HIGHLIGHTS))..............4.24.12

Topic of the Week


"The Tender Trap"

                                                                                   


1) Are women getting pregnant on purpose to trap men?

A) Some women do because they were raised to think that way (Generational Error)

B) Some women have low self esteem, lack of self worth and they feel that’s all they can aspire to have is a baby.

C) Not all women want children by the men they are with

D) There are “Certain Types” of Women who use this method to keep men around.

E)  "Some" Women try to trap men who have their life together "Financially Stable Men"


2) Do men try to trap women as well?

A) YES….LOL but Its TRUE!!! *Side Eye * ask R. Kellz (Half on a Baby)

B) “Some” Men when they feel they have a “BAD” Women,

BAD meaning Sexy, Fine, Great Body *Mainly Physical Aspects* they will

desire more than likely to want to mate or have children with her.



3) How do Women and Men Trap Themselves?    

A) Using Unprotected Sex is the Number #1 reason why UNWANTED PREGNANCY occurs .**Note 2 SELF **  STRAP UP OR BE READY!!!



B) Men aren’t aware that even though the women says she’s on birth control that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s clear from pregnancy ((MESSAGE))



B) Women know when a man only wants a sexual relationship with them and instead of playing their position they let their “Emotions” get the best of them especially during the act of sex ((BE CAREFUL LADIES))



C) Getting “Comfortable” in long term relationships. Not using protection occurs more often in long term relationships (trust has been established)



E) Although Trust has been established in Long Term Relationships that “DOESN”T STOP PREGNANCY”



NOTES 2 THE YOUTH:  Think About It This Way:  Whenever Engaging in Sexual Acts REMEMBER this “PREGNANCY”.. SEX =’s PREGNANCY (NO QUESTIONS ABOUT IT)

CLOSING NOTES:  No Matter What Age You Are Female or Male,  Children are a RESPONSIBLITIY FOR BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED.....NO ONE PERSON IS TO BLAME!!!  PROTECT YOURSELVES, OWN UP TO YOUR ACTIONS & REMEMBER CHILDREN ARE LIFETIME COMMITTMENT!!!

**** Take Home FUNNY of the Day*****

MEN Think Birth Control Actually Controls BIRTH (O.o) ….HAHA YEAH RIGHT)) <<< ALWAYS STRAP UP…..ALWAYS>>>


THANKS EVERYONE FOR COMING OUT…… SEE YOU NEXT TUESDAY @RED KIVA (^.^)